Tuesday, August 19, 2014

The Poet's Wife by Rebecca Stonehill



Family sagas with a strong historical background are one of my favourite genres. This one ticked all the boxes. Another huge favourite is strong women and this story throws up strong women in every generation the book covered. The autocratic and dictatorial type of rule under Franco in Spain was a period of history unknown to me, so I found this very informative.

Luisa and Eduardo fall in love. He is a poet and she is a free spirited young girl, ahead of her time and knows her mind. They marry and have a beautiful family. In the 1920s Spain is torn apart by civil war.and one has to be very careful even of one's neighbours, friends and relatives because the cost of a loose word here or there could be the cost of a life. 

The light hearted family background for the children ends and the family along with a family of gypsies that Luisa has befriended start the 50 year journey of their lives, just trying to survive. As each child strives for independence at a time when independence for women is particularly forbidden Isabel and following her the other children leave the nest and Luisa and Eduardo try to protect the ones left behind.

The story of Isabel and then Isabel and Henry's daughter Paloma follow. Each episode is very beautifully told. It is an emotional and tense time for families in Spain, and for close knit families trying to keep the bonds close it is particularly difficult.

As usual in times of Civil War the stories of survival both physically and mentally are the stories that are wonderful to read about and this family saga is no exception. 

The book was received by me from Netgalley courtesy of Bookouture

Monday, August 18, 2014

Mailbox Monday/It's Monday! What are you reading?



             




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Hosted by Sheila at Book Journey.


The Englishman: Can Love Go the Distance?

This is a Nordic English love story. I like these cross cultural books!
This was an Amazon free download from a blog I read.  

Am also halfway through The Collar. Its all about Irish clergymen (the likes of which I have never sighted!!!!) Humorous and slightly whimsical and a touch of fantasy as well. Takes all kinds!!!




Sunday, August 17, 2014

The Upstairs Wife by Rafia Zakaria

The Upstairs Wife: An Intimate History of Pakistan


The story of Aunt Amina and her husband Uncle Sohail is the primary focus of the book. However the shadow of the Pakistani India conflict and the continual Islamization of Pakistan forms the over riding feature of the story.


I like family sagas. I like the rich, descriptive detail found in such stories. The links within links and in an Asian family with its huge extended family the saga is always more complicated, richer in detail and somehow more intimate.


Amina is married to Sohail and after over a decade of marriage he decides to take a second wife. Taking a second wife is allowed in Islam but you do have to get the permission of the first wife. This was not done in this case and I think it is not done in a lot of cases. The wife tends to get shoved aside in placed of a newer and more glamourous entity. In this case the over riding cause was that Amina did not have children and for Sohail this was of primary importance. Egged on by his elder sister (in the absence of his mother Sohail's elder sister wielded clout that a Western woman could not even dream of!!!!), a new wife was found. Unfortunately for Sohail this wife too did not produce the required heir.
The story is told from the point of view of a ten year old girl, herself the niece of the said Amina. The family is a joint one and her mother is trying to balance the dictates of her own mother in law who asserts herself on even the smallest point to get her own way and try to "put one over" her independent daughter in law. The case in point of getting a driving licence and for five years having to be accompanied by her father in law whose instructions on how to drive, what to do and what not to do whilst driving despite the fact that he did not know himself to drive was a case in point.


Amina's story is set in the time frame of the family's migration from Bombay in India during the Partition. The historical detail was fascinating for me. How a country due to the dictates of first the British was just divided - entire families, communities being uprooted and said now you are Pakistani, now you are Indian. The administrative chaos that must have ensued. The documentation for each individual must have been a nightmare but survive all this they did and families like Amina's moved to Karachi and made a life there for themselves.


The new migrants were not all that welcome. They brought with them a different culture and a different way of life and were looked on as outsiders for decades. The partition of Pakistan, the division and declaration of Bangladesh as a separate country, and the Islamization of Pakistan with its strict Shariat law are all part of this story. The story of the different politicians of Pakistan and what part they played in what Pakistan is today is also detailed in the story. The rise and fall of most of the Presidents of Pakistan is a turbulent story in itself, full of violence and upheaval and military coups and families lived, survived and prospered within this framework.


I loved the writing of this story. I liked the detail. I liked the fact that I was reading something which actually happened and will continue to happen in Asian families upto date. 

The book was a choice from Blogging for Books. 

Saturday, August 16, 2014

Cross the Ocean by Holly Bush (short review)

Cross the Ocean

This was my fun read for the week.

Gertrude was an independent suffragette supporting woman. A fighting woman of her times. The Duke of Wexford is just the opposite. Double standards, women in their place sort of thing. Their meeting was definitely going to create fireworks.

Parallel to their fiery love story is the unusual story of the Duke of Wexford's wife filing for divorce (and getting it). Quite difficult for the times needless to say scandalous when you have three grown up children and one daughter on the brink of being brought out!

Full of very descriptive scenes of both London and America of the 1870s, the way of life for women in both countries and how it was slowly changing despite obstacles added a lot of interest to the love story.

Enjoyed this book courtesy of a free Amazon download.







Thursday, August 14, 2014

Into Thin Air by Caroline Leavitt


A story of abandonment and the effects that this has a decade later on all three parties involved.
We have Lee very young, in love and married and all of a sudden pregnant. A pregnancy she never planned, she did not even think of it till it became so apparent that you could not avoid it. The husband who adores her, and for whom the pregnancy was the crowning glory of his life. That his wife was going to have his child. It was sad seeing the joy, the anticipation of this young husband, when all along you read and felt the despair of the young mother at the same time.

Just after the birth Lee abandons the baby and disappears. Immense time and money is spent on trying to find her and then it peters out because of lack of any evidence that Lee was taken by force. Jim tries to make a life for himself and succeeds in doing so, all the time balancing looking after the baby and trying to forget his wife. 

Many years later, Lee is now in another relationship which also has a partner who seems to feel for her much more than what she feels for him. This all of a sudden triggers in her a need to see the family she left behind and she makes the journey back to find that Jim has settled into a second marriage and to all intents the family is secure and happy. How Lee coming into this marriage creates dissension and strife not just between Lee and Jim's second wife but the trouble created by Lee for their daughter who finds the situation too difficult to handle. A dead mother now resurrected?

Lee seemed to be a spoilt girl who wanted only what she wanted and had no qualms about reaching in and taking it, despite adverse repercussions on anyone else. Lee was not willing to think of the bigger picture - the welfare of her daughter and move on. She felt she was owed something by the whole and thought of herself only.  Jim obviously hadn't got over her abandonment and obviously felt something for her because he kept making excuses to his wife which were for the most part lame and inexcusable. 

The story drew one in because you did want to know what the outcome was going to be. It was settled in a not so satisfactorily manner but then again that is life. 

The book was sent to me by Netgalley courtesy of Open Road Integrated Media.

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

Bittersweet by Miranda Beverly-Whittemore

Bittersweet

The book highlights the world that exists (and that will continue to exist) between the rich and the poor, the ordinary and the super-sophisticated. Mainly due to their inherited wealth and years of not knowing what it is to not have we have the Winslow family on the one hand, almost aristocratic as far as aristocracy and autocracy could go in America and plain and simple Mabel who just wants to belong. Who yearns to have the sense of belonging to one particular sphere which the Winslow children all seem to take for granted.

Mabel and Ev are dorm-mates at university. That too by the maneuverings of Ev's mother who vetted whoever her children were associating with. She saw the neediness of Mabel just the correct antidote for her daughter and set things in motion accordingly. Ev's parents are manipulative, rich, controlling and her father in particular has traits that you wouldn't wish on anyone.

The manipulative nature of the parents have not missed a generation. Ev in her own way is equal to them all and knows exactly which button to push to put Mabel on the spot and doing exactly the things she wants. Mabel on the other hand is the other extreme of naivety - she is so taken up by the Winslow clan, their riches, the ease of life that exists that for a long time she lives in a world where everything is rosy. 

It is only when the brutal facts of rape, murder and pushing everything under the carpet which is  the norm for the Winslow family (as they have been doing for generations) becomes apparent that Mabel comes awake to the fact that this is not quite right. She also realizes that in families such as this, however nice they are to her face, she is still a rank outsider and they will close ranks against her viciously and nastily. Will Mabel have the courage to overcome her feelings to come clean about the nasty secrets harboured by this family.

This was a book which I got through Blogging for Books. A very different read from the other books I read this last week. 

Monday, August 11, 2014

Mailbox Monday/It's Monday! What are you reading?



Mailbox is still a lot of good reads!

Bittersweet

From Blogging for Books. 



              

From Netgalley.

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Liking this one very much. I have a soft spot for books with regard to the Vatican, church philosophy and treachery and the Devil in equal instalments in this one! Makes for a very interesting read. Wheels within wheels in the Church.